Thread:Ursuul/@comment-29771477-20180209234758/@comment-28083312-20180210005001

>>>84 You might end up overwhelming her, just saying. A list of 3 things that are all massively important & integral to her personality / your relationship, that are well thought out, can have a much larger impact than an 84-page-list that might not even be read. I understand it’s a lot of work & you want to show that you put a lot of effort into it, but it isn’t necessarily the best approach. Regarding being around other folks; remember just a few paragraphs earlier where it was Roxanne & Jaxon that pushed you over the edge? Imagine how Rox might take it. Some people have no issue with it, are not super clingy, & are just fine, but some are like you, in that they don’t like seeing such things / it makes them paranoid. Ultimately the best way to find out is to just ask, be honest, & make sure you both are on the same page. If Rox is perturbed, then do what is necessary to make her feel better. If she doesn’t care, then you can do whatever you want & be at ease because you know & Rox knows that you aren’t doing anything bad. Regarding your harasser, I wanted to make that my primary response, but since you have a plan for dealing with it I’ll just say one thing; don’t feed the trolls. I’m not kidding, this type of victim-baiting is what caused Dark Era 2.0, & it’s an order of magnitude worse due to his threats of violence. Do not, under any circumstances at all, give him any attention period. That’s all. You’ve mastered the report & the block button, so you’re good. You didn’t do anything wrong.