Thread:Ursuul/@comment-29771477-20170709143312/@comment-28083312-20170710042052

Aysh, I’m going to be blunt with you; attacking yourself right now is stupid. You are under a lot of pressure & you will need every bit of strength to be defiant & stubborn & to push back in order to get yourself some breathing space. Tearing yourself up now is just throwing in with everyone who’s causing you grief. You need to be on your own side, your own team, because it’s the only way you’ll be able to win free of (or at least endure) the stuff your mom throws at you. People fail, it happens. Sometimes the your friends aren’t with you all the way, sometimes you can’t get the date you want, sometimes you lose; that’s life. But you don’t start winning by quitting the field. You win by getting ticked off, & obstinately trying again & again & again until the pure laws of probability have no choice but to give you a victory. I’m sorry I haven’t responded to all of your stuff of late, I’ve been busy. I tried to tell you to hit me up on Slack; it’s a private place where you can vent all you want, but where we can talk anytime & we both don’t need to be there at the same time. 24/7 you can vent there whenever you want, & I’ll be able to respond. Stay strong Aysh.